[Mazemi]

Chhholland, hold your horses ! Yarn not gonna go anywhere!!

Don't you allow some people to piss you off here ! God gave us a common sence and a free will to decide. I hope you will decide not to let others let you down! I agree with you on some aspects, the GB is becoming more and more a very strange thing. Less and less adds are really usefull, have some aspect of information or adoration towards the person we should really focus on and give our support to. That can only be the chefin herself! At least that's what I think, and that's the only reason I was ever here, and I will continue to do so, though sometimes I'm reall sick and tired of some adds - that's for sure.

I agree with you that it would not be really necessary for long and heartfull goodbyes. Nobody is forced to come here, nobody is forced to leave. I believe that actions like that just put that person in focus, and not the person who we really should focus on: Elli. No matter what happens or happened or with whom or caused by whomever. How come that we are so sick with each other, that some of us prefer to go? Do you have an idea?
By the way, we all should be mature enough to make a difference between this sort of anonymus platform and our private lives. Some of the people here visiting this website and this forum have by now really been losing track of reality. Either they are completely bananas about her, over enthusiastic or completely pissed of. How come there is almost nothing in between? Do you get it? I don't!

I just don't seem to find the logic in it that she has to act or treat everybody in the same way. Who is capable of that? Nobody! Honestly does anybody of us behave like that in private! I dare to doubt. That is from my pint of view impossible.

Of course she is busy with her studies, of course she has a private life as well, and I think after these turbulent two years she deserves somewhat of respect for that and deserves to be left alone.

I think it is more than naive to believe that things will never change. As painfull it might be to some of the people here, as necessary it is on the other hand for her to allow changes into her life. Otherwise she would be placing obsticles in her life herself, and I don't think that this would be very usefull. On that I agree with you completely.

I really hope that you are staying! I would very much like that idea, and I hope you agree upon that.

Thanks you sick puppy.

By the way , how was the vacation? I was almost waiting that they name a hurricane after you, hope everything was ok where you went?!?

Hang in there
Cheers for now
Emina